Unfortunately, just because someone’s a family member doesn’t instantly mean that they’re a kind, witty, and interesting person who you want to spend time with. There are plenty of bizarre, annoying, and even rude people living on our planet. And some of them (probably!) happen to be related to you in some way.
Nearly everybody has at least one person that the rest of their relatives all kind of avoid. The r/AskReddit community spilled the tea about who that person in their family is and what they did to get socially ostracized. Scroll down for their stories.
#1
Me- cuz I'm the only deaf member in the entire family and the only deaf guy in the town as well so there was almost no asl beside mom, aunt and older brother. Even so we didn't really talk like a family. So I grew up with minimal sign language, no asl for my bday, Christmas, Thanksgiving etc. I now see holidays as pointless and waste of time. My mom only FaceTimed me once in 13 years and that was to find out where my cousin were in the store I was with him at the time but yet FaceTimed my cousin and older brother frequently. Go figures. If you've got a deaf family member, it helps a lot learning asl and spending time with them. Don't leave them out.
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#2
Me. I used to try to help everyone when they needed it because I could afford to. Six years ago my wife had a ruptured brain aneurysm and two strokes. I needed help taking care of her. I never got the first offer of any help so on top of my twelve hour each day job I take care of her by myself. I think often of how I gave up so much for everyone else and got treated this way. They all have get togethers and vacations and things we never get invited to because she really is a handful. We just spend time with each other and our grown kids when we can and make the best of it. I do really get upset though because I am so tired and really could use a break but it is what it is. Thank you for listening.
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#3
My aunt and uncle. After my mom died they took my grandma, got power of attorney over her life and wiped out her accounts within minutes of moving out of my dad’s house. Bought all their family members iPads for Christmas and let my grandma die in the garage in the middle of winter. I don’t care that they stole my inheritance—it wasn’t much—but I really miss my grandma to this day.
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#4
It was me. Once my mom passed away I wasn’t spoken to for over 20 years. My crime? Refusing to be a racist bigot filled with hate for anything not white, straight and Christian.
I am happy with their decision.
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#5
Me.
I got sick with Crohns non diabetic LRP and can’t walk. It’s crazy how fast your friends and family abandon you when you can’t go out like you used to.
Being called a hermit only salts the wound. Went from a national qualified runner and athlete to being sick is apparently a choice.
Some of my family say that if I were closer to God, I wouldn’t be so sick. If only it was that easy.
It wasn’t even like it happened over a long period, either. Prior to 2020, I was walking , working ,eating, and socializing.
I’m lucky I have a saint for a wife, so I manage. It just surprised me how fast everyone dropped me. Some people have no idea how to deal with illness when it affects their loved ones and friends.
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#6
My uncle. He is the stereotypical loser, racist homophobe who think gas chambers never existed and that homosexuals Jewish people secretly rule the world. No wonder nobody wants to speak to him.
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#7
It was me, and it was because of my drinking…..
Coming up on 5 years sober, and it took 3 years of sobriety just to get invited to Christmas…so next Christmas will only be like the second I’ve gotten the invite to in 15 years or so…
Took my sister aside last weekend to give her an apology for all that time, and sorry that I was never an uncle to her kids, they’re all grown now, so can’t change that, but I am sorry the bottle was more important than everything, and everyone during that time, I lost everything…
A lot of what, and who I lost I’ll never be able to get back in my life.
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#8
Recently my dad. He slept with my sister’s fiancé (M). My sister is pregnant.
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#9
Me.
Because I'm an atheist.
Entire family is Southern Baptist.
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#10
My mom is the person in her family, but it’s not because she’s a bad person or she has issues with substance abuse. The majority of her family just doesn’t like who she loves. Her family is very white, and my dad, brother, and I are black. I have a Latino uncle, but they’re fine with him. Some of my family don’t care, namely a couple cousins, but I haven’t spoken with any of my aunts or uncles in almost 16 years.
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#11
My aunt.
She tried to take the car my grandmother left in her will to me from me.
This happened literal minutes after my grandmother passed. We were still in the room with my grandmother. .
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#12
My moms brother lol he cheated on his wife (we still talk to her) They divorced, he kidnapped their 2 kids and took them to Singapore for years, then took them on a house boat off the coast of Mexico for a while, and meanwhile was scrutinizing my aunt for “being a bad mom”, Shes a wonderful cheerful cute Swiss woman.Because we still talk to her, he refuses to talk to anyone. We don’t really care.
She has full custody of the kids now in Switzerland :).
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#13
My uncle Greg. His Alzheimer’s dementia is so bad he doesn’t recognize anyone in his family anymore and visiting just scares and confuses him because it’s out of his routine.
It’s really sad because we do miss him. It’s sad to know the next time we see him won’t be until his funeral.
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#14
I'm that family member. I called CPS on my fam, so I get it.
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#15
Me because I removed myself from the cycle of using me as the black sheep. It turns out I do have a line and they danced across it.
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#16
Me. I objected to being bullied by my sister. They all said I was too sensitive and that she had the right to bully me because she's the older one. I stopped speaking to them all once I was told that I don't deserve to be treated with respect.
#17
It’s me.
Im dating a guy (I’m a guy), and the last thing anyone in my Catholic/conservative family can do is talk, so I’m building my own life.
I’ve learned it’s better that way anyway.
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#18
My Aunt. When one of my uncles passed away my other aunts and uncles (besides this one aunt) decided to give their piece of the inheritance to the one uncle who basically sacrificed his whole life to take care of the uncle that passed. The uncle that passed got into a horrible motorcycle accident at the age of 20. He was paralyzed from the neck down and could not eat on his own, nor go to the bathroom and he could barely speak. And on top of this he would wake up every day not remembering anything past the day he got into the accident. My other uncle had to explain to him and comfort him every day with the reality of what happened to him. From 20 until he passed in his late 40s my other uncle cared for him. This one Aunt did not want to give her part of the inheritance and took legal action and was horrible to the whole family because she wanted what she wanted. It is a shame.
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#19
Me. My mother is perpetually miserable, has narcissistic tendencies and is an emotional vampire.
Me putting up healthy boundaries amounted to betrayal in her eyes. As a result, she told me not to come to her funeral when she dies.
Say less. Have a nice life. POS.
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#20
My uncle. He stole tens of thousands of dollars from my grandmother while she was dying of cancer, defaulted on business agreements with my father, and then disappeared.
There’s a lot more to this, but for the sake of brevity and not being *too* specific, we’ll leave it at that.
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#21
Sadly, it’s rapidly becoming the Trump supporting BIL and his family. We don’t really care about their politics, but they insist on pushing them on everyone, inserting them into conversations etc.
They’ve ruined family holidays over it bc they explode if anyone ever tries to point out that facts don’t align with their opinions, and that words like “socialist” don’t mean what they keep insisting they mean.
#22
Me. Not cool with pretending I wasn't beat pretty bad.
"We didn't know better," just is too hard to accept.
#23
Me. I transitioned and haven’t seen my grandparents, cousins, or other family in years. They’re all conservative christians and want nothing to do with me.
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#24
My aunt Pam. At some point she started hearing voices telling her to hurt family members. I don’t have a ton of details, but I know she lives in an apartment on a property managed by some kind of mental health facility.
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#25
Me. I’m city. They’re country. I’d say, “That’s cool!” They’d say, “That’s weird.” I’m queer. They don’t like that. So we don’t talk!
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#26
An aunt who mismanaged grandma’s estate & refused to return the money she stole until one of her sisters sued her for it. Aunt maintains her sisters were “just being mean” but now none of her 4 sisters speak to her.
#27
My older sister. She’s a compulsive liar who has spent many years in and out of prison. She lies about being pregnant and having children to try to guilt trip people into giving her money. She’s been pretty much exiled from the family. Her latest scam was that she had a baby but it took me no time to find the actual child on one of her friends facebooks that she was stealing the photos from.
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#28
Me. I am dealing with depression, and I struggle to believe I belong anywhere. Feel like a burden to everyone, so I don’t want to bring them down. Also have never lived up to what everyone thought I should be. I am also a lot younger than my siblings, and they hated my dad. We had different fathers. So lots of trauma and probably me since I am so risk averse.
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