The less chaos and more peace on your flight, the better. But that’s sometimes a bit too much to ask from the universe, isn’t it? Some of your fellow passengers may feel entitled to your seat and try to pressure you into giving it up. They can get really confused when you politely tell them ‘no.’
That’s exactly what happened to internet user u/airplanebabies. In a post on the AITA subreddit, they shared how a fellow plane passenger, a mom, demanded they switch seats so she could be next to her kids. Failing that, she wanted the author to babysit her munchkins throughout the flight. Scroll down for the full story and to read how the net reacted.
Sometimes, family members get seated separately, and it can lead to a lot of chaos when the parents want to switch seats
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An anonymous traveler wanted to know if they were in the wrong for refusing to accommodate the wishes of a particularly rude and entitled mom
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While kindness is appreciated, nobody’s under any obligation to switch seats… especially when someone’s guilt-tripping them
Nobody’s advocating that you should be cold-hearted, unempathetic, overly selfish, or needlessly cruel. On the flip side, neither should you feel like you have to put your needs and comfort on the back burner for the sake of entitled and rude strangers.
As they say, “poor planning on your part does not necessitate an emergency on mine.” In other words, someone isn’t obligated to switch seats with a parent who didn’t plan ahead and failed to book their seat next to their kids.
Of course, sometimes, most seats are sold out and you take what you can get. But there are nice and polite ways to ask someone to move. And if your fellow passenger finds it in their heart to switch with you? Awesome!
But if they say ‘no,’ you can’t get mad at them for having basic boundaries. ‘No’ is a valid answer. They might have claustrophobia, like the author u/airplanebabies, which is why they want to stay in their aisle seat.
Or they might simply feel entitled to the seat they paid for, fair and square. Or a dozen other reasons. Not that they owe anyone an explanation. Nor should they be guilt-tripped into becoming an unpaid babysitter for the duration of the flight.
Again, there’s room for kindness here. However, you can’t force someone to be kind to you, a complete stranger. Especially if you have an aggressive reaction to them enforcing incredibly basic boundaries. If you want help or a favor, it really pays to be authentically likable and amicable.
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If you and your family have been seated separately, raise the issue at the gate or ticket counter, not on the plane
According to Fodor’s Travel, there are a few reasons why families that travel together might not be seated next to each other.
For example, a non-revenue standby traveler, with discounted tickets, might be assigned whatever empty seats are left on board. So, they might get separated on nearly full flights.
“In other cases, travelers may opt to save money by booking a basic economy ticket, which doesn’t allow them to pre-select seats ahead of time.”
In other words, if you desperately want to sit together on a flight, it’s best to avoid being cheap and pay a bit extra to get the seats you want. This helps you avoid creating chaos for your fellow passengers if you have small kids to take care of.
“People should talk to the gate or ticket counter agent if they’re seated separately. Do this instead of going on the plane, trying to get the flight attendants involved, and asking other passengers to switch with you. Boarding is a hectic time for flight attendants, and space is tight, so reconfiguring passenger seats can be challenging,” one flight attendant told Fodor’s Travel.
What are your thoughts on this situation, dear Pandas? Would you have switched seats with the mom or babysat her kids throughout the flight? Or do you think it’s perfectly reasonable to gently say ‘no’ and leave it at that? Let us know what you think in the comments below.
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After going through the story, most internet users were squarely in the author’s corner. Here’s their perspective
Not everyone was on the same page, however. Some readers called the traveler out as well
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