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It is easy to get caught between the very human desire to share something or get it off your chest, while also knowing you should probably keep it to yourself. Fortunately (depending on your point of view) the internet allows one to sort of do both.

We’ve gathered some of the most interesting posts from this X account where people go to confess things anonymously. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote your favorites and be sure to share your own examples and stories in the comments section down below.

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Have you ever carried a secret so spicy that it felt like your internal organs were trying to do the Macarena just to shake it loose? We have all been there. Whether it is the fact that you accidentally deleted your boss’s favorite spreadsheet or the truth about who actually broke the expensive vase in the hallway, secrets have a funny way of demanding an exit strategy. This is not just a quirky personality trait because it is actually backed by science.

Research conducted by Dr. Michael Slepian at Columbia University has shown that keeping a secret feels like a literal physical weight on your shoulders. The brain processes the mental strain of concealment in a way that mimics carrying a heavy backpack. When you finally blurt it out, your brain experiences a rush of relief that is comparable to finally dropping twenty pounds of groceries on the kitchen counter. It is a total system reboot for your sanity.

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This is driven by something known as the online disinhibition effect, which is a fancy way of saying that we are much more likely to say something outrageous when we do not have to look our listener in the eyes. Behind the safety of an avatar or a fake name, the social filters that usually keep us from admitting we still sleep with a nightlight simply evaporate. The internet acts as a giant pressurized release valve for all the weird thoughts we are too afraid to share at a dinner party. It is a place where you can admit your deepest shame and be met with thousands of strangers saying that they also do the exact same thing.

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Psychologist Robin Dunbar famously proposed that gossip is essentially a form of social grooming that replaced picking fleas off each other as a way to bond. By sharing information about the behavior of others, we learn the rules of our society without having to make the mistakes ourselves.

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When we watch someone get things off their chest online, we are participating in a global bonding ritual. We feel a strange sense of intimacy with a person we have never met because they have invited us into their private world. It provides us with a safe way to experience high stakes drama from the comfort of our couches without any of the actual consequences.

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There is also a deep sense of validation that comes from realizing that humanity is generally a giant mess. In a world where social media often feels like a highlight reel of perfect vacations and flawless skin, a raw confession is a breath of fresh air. It is a reminder that everyone is stumbling through life with a few skeletons in their closet.

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When a video of someone admitting a major mistake goes viral, it often does so because it strikes a chord of universal human fallibility. We do not just enjoy the gossip because we are nosy, although that is certainly part of it, we enjoy it because it makes us feel less alone in our own imperfections.

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We are all just looking for someone to tell us that our weird habits and secret thoughts are okay. As long as people keep feeling the weight of their secrets, the internet will be there to catch every word with open arms and a very active comment section. It is a beautiful and slightly chaotic cycle of human connection that proves we would much rather be messy together than perfect alone.