Wife And Kids Aren’t Allowed To Have Passports, Husband Says: “We Can’t Afford Them”

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There are many factors that dictate how a family manages its finances. One might have multiple incomes and be saving for a house, while another could be struggling with employment and focused on paying off debt. The key is that everyone understands the situation and acts in the household’s best interest. Or at the very least, they don’t sabotage each other.

However, as a recent story from the parenting forum Mumsnet shows, that’s not always the case. Last week, a user who goes by Marzipanface shared an emotional post explaining why her husband’s actions around money have started to feel controlling and borderline manipulative. She asked people if they agreed or if they thought she was just being unreasonable.

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Family having breakfast together, highlighting wife and kids affected by husband's passport affordability issue.

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But this woman has gotten sick and tired of being homebound, and she blames her husband for it

Text excerpt about a husband saying wife and kids are not allowed passports due to affordability and family responsibilities.

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Text explaining children asking why they cannot travel abroad and the father saying they don’t have passports due to cost constraints

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After reading the woman’s story, some people said she doesn’t deserve to go traveling

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So, she provided more information on her predicament

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The family conflict has received a lot of different reactions

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