Teen Refuses To Use His Mom’s New Last Name, Family Says It Sends The Wrong Message

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There are always going to be some problems when two families blend together. There are boundaries, loyalties and other questions that all need to be resolved, in what is generally a pretty emotionally charged situation. One such tripping point can even be the names and last names people decide to keep for themselves.

A teen asked the internet if he was wrong to insist on keeping his late father’s last name even after his mom remarried and he ended up in a blended family. We reached out to the young man who made the post via private message and will update the article when he gets back to us.

Keeping a parent’s surname is a way to honor their legacy

Teen holding head in hands near wall, showing stress and conflict over keeping late father's last name.

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But one teen ended up getting into conflict with his mother over it

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Teen wants to keep late father’s last name despite mother upset after remarriage and family name changes.

Teen wants to keep late father’s last name despite mother’s upset over family name change request.

Teen wants to keep late father’s last name, causing upset with mother over blended family identity.

Sad woman sitting on couch in a cozy living room, upset about teen wanting to keep late father last name conflict.

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Teen wants to keep late father’s last name despite mother being upset about the decision and family conflicts.

Teen wants to keep late father last name while mother upset about family activities and name choices.

Teen and mother having a serious conversation in a living room, teen wants to keep late father’s last name.

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Teen wants to keep late father’s last name despite mother upset about the decision and family tension.

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He gave some more thoughts in the comments

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Commenters discuss a teen wanting to keep late father's last name while mother is upset about it.

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Most saw his side of the conflict

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Comment discussing a mom in a second marriage upset over teen wanting to keep late father's last name.

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