Most of us know the image of the angel and devil sitting on either shoulder, whispering sweet nothings into the ears of the decision-maker. How do you make the choice between them? Which side do you listen to? Is it the moral values, is it society’s expectations, or is it a 50/50 impulse? Hard to say.
But what isn’t too difficult to decide upon are the ‘green flags’ that show one to be a genuinely good human. Even though a person may look harsh on the outside, they may be the kindest cinnamon roll on the inside, as showcased through their words and actions. Little birds seem to fly around them, and the clouds part to let sunshine rain down on them.
Someone decided to ask the community of r/AskReddit what they believed to be the most telltale signs of goodness, and dozens of netizens delivered their verdicts. Make sure you do the same by upvoting your favorites, leaving your thoughts in the comments below, and if you’re curious to see the other side of the coin, Bored Panda has you covered with an article right here. Now let’s get into it!
#1
Guy I used to work with was such a class clown, always cracking jokes. Everybody liked him because he was so funny. It was a while before I realized that his jokes were never at anybody’s expense. He was kind. There was never anything mean in anything he ever said, to anybody’s face or behind their back.
Anyway we’re married now.
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#2
when you’re in a group and that one person keeps trying to say something or add to the conversation but they keep getting talked over. Then that other person will look at them and say, “Sorry person, I didn’t catch what you were trying to say, can you repeat it?” and makes space for the person being ignored unintentionally. That’s a real gem.
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#3
I don’t really know how I want to word this, so I’ll just tell you the story.
This past Sunday at 2:34am, my cat/son George was euthanized because he was so sick. Naturally, I was very, very, very close to my son and I took it extremely hard. I didn’t go to work on Monday, but did show up to work on Tuesday. So the math so far is I’ve lost my son less than 72 hours, and it was just 48 hours before then that I quite literally collapsed in grief. What I’m trying to say is: I was very visibly upset, frequently crying, really quiet, etc.
A customer had noticed that I was upset and asked if everything was okay. I had hit a place in the day where I felt like I could open up to total strangers about what was wrong, and so I told her. It turns out she lost her cat the same weekend in the same manner. She told me she hopes I take comfort in knowing George was no longer suffering and that my husband and I made the right decision. She paid for her groceries and left.
She came back not even 30 minutes later with a single wrapped gerbera daisy. She said, “This is for George, okay?” before leaving. Her kindness spoke absolute volumes. She was grieving the loss of her own pet, but when she saw a total stranger- a cashier, who many customers regard as being inhuman, no less- mourning the loss of their pet too, she reached out and offered an ear and genuine condolences. No hidden agenda, no ulterior motives- just genuine compassion.
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#4
How they treat animals and customer service staff. Especially when they are agitated.
Putting their shopping cart in the corral, even if it’s not right next to them.
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#5
You can tell a good kid when they purposely try to include the quiet shy kid at school, and make an effort to be nice and friendly to them
I was that kid at high school and it always made me happy when these kids would make an effort to talk to me
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#6
When you are having an argument and they actually listen to your point instead of just getting ready to make theirs.
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#7
They pick up litter and put it in the bin without posting a picture on social media saying “You guysss this is so depressing to see :'(“
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#8
they don’t ask question that might hurt other people. like “why ur not married yet?” or “why u don’t have kids?”
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#9
They say “take your time”
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#10
People who make excuses to do good deeds.
Picking you up from the airport? “Oh, it was on my way.”
Buying you a beer? “I accidentally ordered two.”
Helping you move? “I need the work out! Now I don’t have to go to the gym later!”
Volunteering at an event? “I had nothing else going on tonight, I’m just here ’cause my buddy asked me to.”
Anyone who does a favor for you and then acts like you’re doing them a favor, or brushes the favor off as nothing, is a person who is doing the good deed for the sake of it and not for the praise or clout they receive. These are the best kinds of people.
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#11
They have really happy cats. Shows that they’re caring and nurturing
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#12
Someone who is willing to embarrass themselves in order to help someone else.
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#13
They are given a chance to quietly talk bad about someone, but instead, says something good.
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#14
When someone is honest, even at the detriment of themselves.
Ex they won’t lie to save face
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#15
Someone who’s always quiet but raises their concern when they feel it’s against theirs or someone’s will.
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#16
Probably a boring answer, but I have this friend who I can just tell is really sincere when he asks how I’m doing. I appreciate anyone asking because it’s a convenient conversation starter, but with him I can tell he actually cares what the answer is.
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#17
When they wait and hold the door open for you.
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#18
They don’t brag.
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#19
When folks are piling on jokes on teases on someone that they don’t know very well and the person quietly raises a point of kindness or empathy. It’s so easy to be mean spirited, especially in group settings. It’s harder to be kind in those situations.
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