Adjusting to blended families can be quite difficult for kids, especially when the new parent doesn’t even accept them as a stepchild. Well, it’s a two-way street, so this new individual gets treated the exact same way that they treat the stepkid.
Reddit user Agile-Huckleberry607 had little love for her stepfather as he always made it clear that she wasn’t his kid. However, her half-siblings refused to believe that she was their half-sister despite the blatant differential treatment that she received from their dad. Only when he passed away and left her nothing in the will did they believe it, but then, it was too late!
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Kids can find it difficult to adjust in a blended family, especially when they are not accepted by the “new parent”
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The poster’s stepfather never accepted her as his family, but his and her mom’s kids never understood this despite how he treated her
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She tried to tell her three half-siblings that their dad was not her father, but they refused to believe her even when she showed her birth certificate
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When their father was ill, the poster refused to help him, so the siblings fought with her, still refusing to believe that she was their half-sister
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They only believed it when he passed away and left her nothing in the will, so they wanted to discuss it, but she refused after what they made her go through
Today, we dive into a story that’s a little sad for the original poster (OP) because of how her stepfather treated her. Her mom married him when she was just 4 years old and he never failed to remind her that he was not her real father. This differential treatment toward her continued after the couple had 3 children of their own.
Surprisingly, though, OP’s half-siblings never got an inkling that she was not their real sister, but rather, their half-sister. Their mom never tried to correct them and their dad didn’t even know about this, so when they were around 12, the poster told them. However, even after she showed them her birth certificate as proof, they refused to believe her.
When she pointed out how differently their dad treated her, it was to no avail as they brushed it aside as being due to the fact that “older kids have it different.” 5 years ago, when her mom passed away, her stepdad became sick, but she refused to help him, which is fair considering he never treated her right.
This didn’t go down well with her half-siblings who still refused to believe that she was not their real sister. Yet again, her protests about how he treated her differently fell on deaf ears. The tables turned when the man passed away and left nothing for the poster in his will, and that’s when the truth hit the siblings.
They finally believed that the poster was being honest all along and reached out to her to talk about it. Well, it was too late now because she had no interest whatsoever in discussing it after everything that these people put her through. Contemplating whether she’s making the right decision, the poster vented online and sought advice from Redditors.
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First of all, folks expressed their sympathies that the poor poster had to go through so much at such a young age. Research states that children, regardless of their age, need love, acceptance, and a sense of belonging to thrive.
It further elaborates, “When a step-parent dislikes a stepchild, it can lead to feelings of rejection, low self-esteem, and insecurity in the child. They may feel unwelcome in their own home and may start to question their worth. This can affect their academic performance, social interactions, and overall mental health.”
Folks were also concerned about whether her mother knew what her husband said to the poster or had an idea about the way he treated her. OP replied in the comments that her mom could see the way he treated her and his kids differently and also knew about some of the things he said to her but ignored it. This was quite horrifying to hear and netizens said that this was pure emotional neglect.
It has been observed that for children, affectional neglect may have devastating consequences, including failure to thrive, developmental delay, hyperactivity, aggression, depression, low self-esteem, running away from home, and a host of other emotional disorders.
While the poster could be struggling with these things due to the way her mom and stepdad treated her, she also had to face the wrath of her half-siblings. Folks highlighted that it was only after the will that they approached her and that sounded like a big red flag. They even advised her to keep her distance from these people and she commented that she intended to do just that.
We hope they don’t keep bothering her about it so she can at least have a better life now that she’s rid of the old toxicity. If your siblings (or half-siblings) refused to believe you, would you still forgive them? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
Folks online sided with the poster and chastised the half-siblings for not believing her and making her suffer
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