Recently, a first-time mom of 6-month-old twins who goes by the handle DearRiver4425 asked for advice on the r/Nanny community. In a post, she shared how their babies’ nanny began acting weird and couldn’t wait to leave, although everything went fine in the beginning.
“I didn’t exactly blame her, she’s caring for infant twins. I’m often excited to go to work so I can get a break from them,” the author explained but added that there must have been some bigger reason.
One Friday night, when her husband and nanny were both at home, the woman witnessed a little incident. “Oh, I think (son) has a poopy diaper. Nanny is still here, it’s her job, just let her do it,” he casually said to his wife.
This left the author appalled and it soon became clear it wasn’t the first time her husband had ordered the nanny around. Let’s see how this story evolved and be sure to share your advice in the comments.
Mom found out her husband has been secretly giving their babies’ nanny extra work, forcing her to the brink of quitting
Image credits: pvandermaesen0 (not the actual photo)
Image credits: Engin_Akyurt (not the actual photo)
The author also clarified a couple of details about the whole situation
Mom later came back with an unfortunate update about the nanny
With a second update, the author broke out yet more news about why the nanny felt so uncomfortable being around her husband
In the last edit, the author noted that some things that happened in this situation she is keeping private
Image credits: DearRiver4425
Many people had a lot to say about this whole situation
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