Guy Wants A Solo Trip While Wife Takes Care Of 7 Y.O. And 8-Month-Old Twins, Gets A Reality Check

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Most of us associate solo trips with single people. But parents need some quality alone time, too! In fact, 77% of Americans believe that mom and dad should go on trips without kids. What’s more, experts say that parents should travel without each other as well – it’s a great way to reduce everyday stress and friction in the relationship.

One young family had a similar arrangement, but one day, the dad sprang up his solo trip plans on the mom unexpectedly. Since they didn’t have a full-time nanny and had 7-month-old twins, the mom felt it was too early for him to leave the family alone. But who do you think was right in this situation?

A mom of three rejected her husband’s plans to go on a solo trip and leave her alone with kids

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“We don’t have full-time child care and, and it’s honestly just a lot with the 3 kids,” she defended her decision

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The couple take turns having me-time and the guy is a good dad overall

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The parents currently have a part-time nanny only, so the dad’s decision blindsided the mom

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Most people felt it wasn’t fair to leave the mom alone with three kids in this situation

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Others thought that if the mom gets to travel often, the dad should get some time off, too

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