Money both solves and creates problems, and Reddit user Sea_Golf_3839 is experiencing this firsthand. The man claims he and his fiancée had worked out an arrangement that — they believed — would be fair for their kids. He parents his, she takes care of hers, and everyone is happy. Well, after seeing the way he treats his son and daughter, his fiancée’s children told her they want him to become their stepdad. But he suspects ulterior motives and refuses to agree, creating tension in the household.
Boundaries are supposed to help people and their relationships
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But if they grown into walls, it can be hard to dismantle them
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As his story went viral, the man provided more information on his family
A lot of people who read about their arrangement thought it was weird
Still, some believe he has every right to refuse to parent his fiancée’s kids
A few, however, said he should show more empathy if he intends to actually marry this woman
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