Some things, whether good or bad, can’t be put into words; they have to be experienced firsthand for a person to understand what they really feel like. For some people, it’s holding their newborn in their hands for the very first time, for others it can be something way less magical, like coming face-to-face with an alligator; but in both cases, there is simply no way to convey the experience with words.
Curious about such instances, redditor u/Slow_Inflation8701 addressed members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community asking what’s something people don’t understand until they go through it themselves. Fellow netizens shared their insight covering everything from abuse to parenthood, and much more, so scroll down to find their answers on the list below.
#1
Being with an abuser (mentally, physically, or both) and how hard it is to leave
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#2
Depression, actual clinical diagnosed depression.
If I had a dollar every time I had to explain to someone it’s not “just feeling sad, bro!” and can get over it just like that, I could retire.
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#3
Having to cut off your family because they are very toxic. It’s almost impossible to come off as the reasonable person in this situation to others, even if your life was in danger. People just don’t understand
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#4
Chronic debilitating illness and disability. How quickly life can change permanently without you doing anything wrong.
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#5
Struggling without anyone or anything to fall back on.
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#6
Sexual assault
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#7
Living with PTSD.
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#8
Mental illness.
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#9
Anxiety or The Anxious feeling of something bad always feels like it’s going to happen, and imagining things before they even happen and not being able to cope.
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#10
How extremely devastating being on cheated is. It’s a truly sickening feeling in your gut, and nothing in your life is the same afterward. Some people are never the same ever again, others take over a decade to go back to normal. But that initial feeling is the worst. The suspicionions, the adrenaline as the truth unfolds, the severe depression, and the imagination all come together to bring you one of life’s most devastating experiences.
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#11
Nerve pain
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#12
Losing a parent at a young age. You’re not sad because you miss them. You’re sad because you were robbed of ever knowing them.
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#13
How bad toxic people and gaslighting are. The thing about that kind of abuse is that you never feel it like you would pbysical abuse. I know when I’m being punched, I don’t know when I’m being gaslighted.
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#14
Birth. We all know it’s “hard” but sometimes even the baby books and videos don’t prepare you for what could happen. When I had my son my placenta adhered to my uterine wall. Resulting in me nearly bleeding out. When my water broke it was ALL dark blood. And when I got to the hospital after my water broke I stood up and immediately heard a splash and a HUGE pile of dark red blood pooled on the floor beneath my feet. I had to have a c section after being in labor for almost two days and failing to progress. And on the table they tried pulling it out just a little and I felt EVERYTHING. I started bleeding out and they let me see my son and I was told that there was something wrong with my placenta and they had to put me under. I was intubated and given iron transfusions and blood transfusions over a two week period on top of healing from a c section.
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#15
Grief.
When it’s been a a while since, it’s common for people to say something like, “it’s been a few years, move on.”
It truthfully doesn’t work that way. You remember them forever. And even when times after are extremely good and happy, a little part of you is looking in that empty corner.
Don’t say the “move on” thing to grieving people. It truthfully is great that you don’t relate, grieving people don’t want you to try and relate. They’re in the middle of a process that, at least in some ways, lasts forever.
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#16
Addictions.
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#17
Dieing. Getting old. I’m 84 and, while I’m ok, lots of activities, tons of pain, low energy. It is nothing like I imagined and before that final exit, there are a lot more surprises. (One of the interesting things is that I have NO fear, but maybe that will change. lol)
#18
Working in customer service
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#19
Blindness, or bad eyes in general.
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#20
Narcistic abuse
#21
Cancer.
What it really means to go through cancer treatment.
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#22
Having real OCD.
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#23
Miscarriage. It’s truly devastating.
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#24
Car crashes
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#25
How unprepared you are for a physical fight. Most people way overestimate their abilities.
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