“AITA For Demanding To Go Through My BIL’s And His GF’s Bags If They Are Staying With Us?”

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While it can be hard to comprehend for someone who has never encountered it, allergies are not something to be taken lightly. While for some, certain products might just produce an errant sneeze, others can end up in the ER just from mild exposure. So ignoring someone’s allergies is very much a horrible thing to do.

A woman with a severe dairy allergy wondered if she was wrong to insist on checking her BIL’s and his GF’s bags after they repeatedly brought dairy into her house. She also shared some pretty sizable updates about the story. We reached out to the woman who shared the story via private message and will update the article when she gets back to us.

If someone puts you in the ER because they didn’t listen, you’d be wise to take precautions

Woman in a beige sweater sitting with face in hands, appearing stressed, in a bright room with decorative plants.

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So one woman started demanding to see what her BIL and his GF brought into her house

Text discussing a severe dairy allergy requiring EpiPens to avoid emergency situations.

Text discussing strict house rules due to allergies, including a ban on dairy, with in-laws being accommodating.

Text discussing BIL's new relationship, visiting, allergy explanation, and household no-dairy rule.

Text about in-laws visit and allergy incident due to cross-contamination.

Person in uniform moving stretcher near open ambulance, ready for emergency response.

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Text discussing a relationship with BIL, focusing on keeping a positive connection.

Text about a video call regarding allergy rules with BIL and his girlfriend before their visit.

Text notes a discovery of candy wrappers and a milkshake container in guest room trash, allergy issues involved.

Text reads confrontation about BIL's girlfriend's dairy items, leading to BIL staying and girlfriend being kicked out.

Man and woman having a tense discussion in hallway about going through bags during their stay.

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Text discussing trust issues with BIL's girlfriend and her visiting plans.

Text discussing a compromise regarding trust and a request involving bags during a stay with a brother-in-law and his girlfriend.

Text insists on checking bags of BIL's girlfriend if staying at their place.

Text questioning the ethics of inspecting a guest's bags, reflecting concerns about privacy invasion.

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Readers thought the GF and her BF really overstepped themselves

Reddit comment discussing risks and boundaries regarding hosting guests, mentioning previous dangerous situations.

Comment in response to BIL's visit, affirming "NTA," with 5.7k points, posted 3 days ago, tagged SquirrelBowl.

Comment questioning who's the real a*****e in the context of trust issues.

Comment on demanding bag search for BIL's GF stay, suggesting alternative accommodations.

Text screenshot of a Reddit comment discussing concerns about a BIL and his girlfriend's visit.

Reddit comment discussing trust issues and family drama about brother-in-law’s girlfriend staying over.

Reddit user comment discussing boundaries with BIL and girlfriend's bags.

Reddit comment questioning BIL's GF's financial choices regarding hotel and ER visit.

Comment expressing opinion about guests staying elsewhere due to privacy concerns.

Reddit comment discussing baggage inspection concerns with brother-in-law and girlfriend staying over.

Reddit comment about trusting guests, suggesting they stay in a hotel instead of going through their bags.

Comment with opinions on family bag search and trust issues.

Comment discussing BIL, GF, and staying arrangements, suggesting a hotel for safety.

Comment on a forum with user opinion about guests staying over.

Comment on the topic of demanding to check bags when hosting.

She later shared the first of two updates

Text discusses comments about the danger posed by brother-in-law's girlfriend when staying in the house.

Text highlights a repeated allergy incident involving a BIL's GF and dairy in the home.

Text discussing allergies and needing to address bag inspection concerns during a visit.

Text discussing allowing brother-in-law and girlfriend to stay, needing resolution for trust issues.

Couple discussing concerns about guests' luggage.

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Text message to brother-in-law about stay, mentioning he's welcome but his girlfriend is not allowed in the house.

Text expressing frustration over BIL's girlfriend breaking rules and prioritizing health over visits.

Text message reveals conversation about BIL's GF visiting after second trip; forgiveness given but hesitant to welcome back.

Text discussing BIL's visits and conditions for his GF's stay.

Apologetic BIL planning video chat to resolve issues regarding stayover concerns.

Text discussing brother-in-law, girlfriend, and trauma from an allergic reaction in a personal situation.

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In the final update, she shared all the ensuing relationship drama

Text discusses BIL apologizing for trusting his GF over family and explains his delayed conversation.

Text expressing remorse and desire to show actions, discussing a situation involving BIL and GF's stay.

Text about a fiancé confronting his ex, mentioning lying and emotional manipulation.

Text about BIL realizing GF's manipulative behavior and breaking up.

Text revealing family tension over BIL's breakup after his second visit, highlighting safety concerns and relationship issues.

Man in a black hoodie sitting, appearing frustrated and thoughtful, hand on forehead in a home setting.

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Text from a story discussing a breakup and reconciliation.

Text discussing BIL's unhappiness with his living situation and visits to consider moving.

Text discussing suspicion and manipulation related to BIL's situation.

Text message from BIL explaining a family situation to avoid reliving trauma from an allergic reaction.

Text about discussing a serious allergic reaction with BIL and fiancé.

Text about not blaming BIL, who is portrayed as a good guy manipulated by his ex.

Text discussing BIL's stay with us and emotional support.

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People shared their thoughts in the comments

Comment about BIL and ex, expressing relief over BIL's ability to move on.

Comment discussing concerns about BIL's manipulative and toxic relationship.

Reddit comment about soon-to-be in-laws, highlighting their awesomeness.

Comment discussing BIL and ex-girlfriend's situation with hopeful resolution.

Comment discussing ex-girlfriend and concerns about her actions, mentioning potential threats and advice to stay cautious.

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