FIL Has Major Freak-Out After Eating Vegetarian Meatballs, Demands Son Leave “Psycho” Fiancée

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Cooking, food, diets, and health are topics that nearly everyone will have an opinion on. It’s not rare to see people trying to convince others that the diet that works great for them is something that absolutely everyone should adopt. Things can get pretty emotional sometimes when someone sees what they eat as a core part of their identity.

Redditor u/Sherry7Cooky, a vegetarian, asked the AITA online community for some impartial advice regarding a sensitive situation at home. She shared how she got in an argument with her father-in-law, an ardent meat-eater, after she didn’t tell him that the food he was putting onto his plate was made with soybeans, not meat.

Scroll down to read the full story and to hear what the internet had to say about everything. Bored Panda has reached out to the author for further comment, and we’ll update the article as soon as we hear back from her.

Some people are completely against vegetarian and vegan alternatives to meat, and aren’t willing to even try them

Vegetarian meatballs served on a bed of greens with a fork picking up one meatball.

Image credits: Emiliano Vittoriosi (not the actual photo)

A woman opened up about how her father-in-law got incredibly mad at her after accidentally trying her vegetarian dish, which she didn’t speak up about. Here’s what happened

Text discussing whether it's wrong to sneak vegetarian food into father-in-law's meal.

Father-in-law upset over vegetarian meatballs, creating family tension.

Text about a father-in-law's reactions to vegetarian choices.

Text recounting dinner with fiancé's parents, featuring spaghetti and vegetarian meatballs.

Text about father mistakenly eating vegetarian meatballs instead of regular ones.

Text describing a moment where a father-in-law unknowingly eats vegetarian meatballs.

Text message about vegetarian meatballs causing family drama, mentioning angry fiancé calling his dad.

Text message about FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs, calling fiancée "psycho" and demanding son to leave her.
Elderly man with glasses on phone, appearing upset, in a beige sweater.

Image credits: Getty Images (not the actual photo)

Text sharing a story about a FIL's reaction to eating vegetarian meatballs and confronting his son’s fiancée.

Text describing a fiancée defending serving vegetarian meatballs to her family.

Text about a fiancée's concerns regarding arguments with her father-in-law after vegetarian meatballs incident.

Image source: Sherry7Cooky

Not everyone is adventurous and willing to try out dishes they’re unfamiliar with

Person eating sushi with chopsticks, highlighting vegetarian meal experience.

Image credits: Maxime (not the actual photo)

No matter if you’re a meat-eater, omnivore, pescatarian, vegetarian, vegan, or anything else, it’s a good rule of thumb for everyone to be on the same page in terms of the ingredients that you’ve used while making dinner.

One of the potential dangers of not informing someone what they’re eating is that some ingredients might activate any allergies that they might have.

Allergies are nothing to sneeze at (pun not intended), and they can have a massive negative impact on a person’s health if you don’t have medicine on hand.

In some cases, more severe allergic reactions might require an urgent visit to the local hospital’s emergency room.

And while it’s up to the host to double-check if anyone has any major allergies, the guests also have to speak up if they have any dietary preferences. For instance, if they’re completely against soybeans, it’s best to give a small heads-up to avoid any major arguments down the line.

Meanwhile, if you’re dining out, you should also inform your server that you’re allergic to specific ingredients. For example, if you have a peanut allergy, the last thing you want is for someone in the kitchen to be working with them in the vicinity of your food.

That being said, if you don’t have any food allergies, one of the most fun things about life is trying out different dishes and cuisines.

Naturally, not everyone’s adventurous or motivated enough to try out new things. However, if you’re even a bit open-minded and curious about cooking, there’s a whole world of flavors, textures, spices, and ingredients to taste.

Often, you might assume you won’t like something before you try it. Or you might believe that you’ll absolutely love something even before your first bite. It’s only after you’ve tried something once or twice that you can begin to form any conclusions.

And some ingredients can be an acquired taste that requires multiple tries. Meanwhile, other ingredients can taste incredibly different depending on how you’ve prepared them and what recipe you’re using.

Generally speaking, it’s usually best to inform your guests what you’re making in case they have any severe allergies

Woman in kitchen preparing vegetarian dish with cutting board and pot.

Image credits: Getty Images (not the actual photo)

Healthline explains that food allergies are essentially your immune system reacting to food proteins that it perceives as threatening. Your body creates antibodies to recognize and fight off what it sees as an infection.

Generally, food allergy symptoms can include difficulty breathing, low blood pressure, an upset stomach, swelling of the tongue/mouth/face, hives, dizziness, an itchy rash, feeling faint, coughing, and wheezing.

In the most severe cases, food allergies can cause anaphylaxis, which is life-threatening and requires immediate medical attention.

According to Healthline, you should rush to get in touch with medical professionals if you experience a sudden swelling of the mouth, lips, throat, or tongue.

You should also get in touch with a doctor ASAP if you get a sudden rash, feel shortness of breath, have very fast breathing, have difficulty swallowing, suddenly feel dizzy, or if your skin, tongue, or lips become blue or pale.

Some allergic reactions are so serious that the person may be unresponsive, faint, or lose consciousness.

The NHS notes that antihistamines can be taken for mild allergic reactions. Meanwhile, emergency medicines called adrenaline auto-injectors (for instance, an EpiPen) are used for severe allergic reactions.

If you have severe allergies, always check food labels and restaurant menus, tell your family and friends about the ingredients you can’t eat, and carry adrenaline auto-injectors on you in case of emergency.

You should also inform restaurants and cafes about your allergy and be sure to do the same with airline cabin staff before flying. It’s usually best not to eat anything before checking what ingredients are in the dish first.

What are your thoughts about the entire argument between the vegetarian author of the viral online story and her meat-eater father-in-law? Who do you think was in the wrong? How would you have handled the fallout from the entire situation? Have you ever accidentally tasted meat alternatives without knowing what they were? Let us know in the comments below.

Some internet users were completely on the author’s side

Reddit comments discussing FIL reaction to vegetarian meatballs; raising relationship concerns.

Reddit comment discussing a family conflict over vegetarian meatballs and character judgment.

Reddit comment discussing FIL's reaction to eating vegetarian meatballs, questioning dietary concerns and reactions.

Text screenshot critiquing FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs; discusses food respect and relationship dynamics.

Reddit comment discussing relationship and respect issues following a vegetarian meatball incident.

Online comment about father-in-law's reaction to eating vegetarian meatballs unknowingly.

Text exchange discussing FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs and relationship advice.

Text comment about vegetarian meatballs causing a strong reaction and family conflict.

Reddit comment discussing vegetarian meatballs and a father-in-law's reaction.

Comment criticizing fiancé's support after vegetarian meatball incident.

Text commenting on FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs and calling out fiancé's behavior.

Comment criticizing FIL's reaction to eating vegetarian meatballs, mentions family dynamics and responses.

Text from a comment reacting to a situation with a future father-in-law and vegetarian meatballs.

Forum comment reacting to freak-out over vegetarian meatballs, mentioning potential relationship issues.

Comment questioning relationship with fiancée after FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs.

Comment discussing vegetarian food reactions, mentioning "fiancée" and dining awareness responsibilities.

Text from a discussion about a freak-out over vegetarian meatballs.

Reddit comment mockup discussing a finance problem related to vegetarian meatballs and an upset FIL.

Others thought that everyone handled the dinner drama poorly

Text exchange about a FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs, highlighting family conflict over food choices.

Comment discussing FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs and fiancé's response.

Reddit comment discussing anti-vegetarian views and toxic masculinity after incident with vegetarian meatballs.

Reddit comment discussing FIL's reaction to eating vegetarian meatballs.

Reddit comment criticizing relationship dynamics after FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs.

Comment on vegetarian meatball incident, mentioning boundaries and relationship advice.

A small number of readers also called out the vegetarian for what happened

Comments about FIL's reaction to vegetarian meatballs mishap, discussing food boundaries and responses.

Reddit comment discussing vegetarian meatballs and relationship conflict.

Woman in a kitchen pondering with a wooden spoon, relating to vegetarian meatballs incident.

Image credits: Zachary Kadolph (not the actual photo)

A while later, the author shared an update with her readers

Text update about apologizing to FIL after vegetarian meatballs incident.

Text discussing reactions to accidentally eating meat as a vegetarian.

Image source: Sherry7Cooky

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