Whether we hide it well or not, we all have a handful of insecurities. As we pick our physical or internal features apart, we often risk becoming too obsessed with something that has no rational ground.
While many women out there know what it means to be way too judgemental of themselves, men are no exception. In a society where an illusory image of a strong and successful man has been fostered since the dawn of time, they find it particularly hard if not impossible to express their vulnerable side.
So this thread on Ask Reddit shares a whole new light on insecurities men have that they often remain silent about. “Girls of Reddit, what is something guys shouldn’t feel insecure about?” someone asked, and below we wrapped up the most interesting responses.
Also, when you’re done, don’t forget to check out our previous feature on common female insecurities that according to men don’t matter at all.
#1
Dont feel insecure about liking “girly” things. Order that fruity drink, watch that rom com, and sing in the shower. A lot less people care than you might realize.
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#2
Guys shouldn’t have to be insecure about crying. Masculinity standards make men feel they shouldn’t ever cry, but its a healthy way if expressing sadness and can even be a method of getting rid of stress.
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#3
Being empathetic towards women’s issues.
A lot of men tend to downplay or water down women’s reactions, especially when they are in a group. Maybe because they don’t want to seem as if they think differently from other men in the group.
If you empathise, you empathise. Doesn’t make you less if a man for understanding us and where we’re coming from.
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#4
Being able to admit that you were wrong and apologize.
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#5
Singing.
I love when I’m at a chill pizza joint and the cooks in the kitchen are singing. Doesn’t even matter if they’re not great singers. I love when people are happy enough to sing!
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#6
Not making as much money as their girlfriend or wife. If you’re with the right girl she won’t care. As long as you have a career that makes you happy, that’s all that should matter.
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#7
Their muscles— or lack thereof. Girls aren’t as into muscles as you might think 🙂
That said, a man who doesn’t look that muscly but is strong is very attractive.
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#8
Receding hairline. If we love you we love you
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#9
Some friends of mine are really insecure about not being able to grow a beard. Tbh it doesn’t really matter.
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#10
Asking for help.
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#11
acknowledging other attractive guys, women say other women are beautiful all the time why can’t guys say the same things about other guys without fearing being called gay
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#12
Guys shouldn’t feel so insecure about they’re body shape. You don’t have to have big biceps or washboard abs in order for a girl to like you.
Edit: their*
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#13
Being open about what they do/like.
My current boyfriend loves singing but is so shy even though he has an amazing voice.
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#14
They should stop feeling insecure about showing emotion, especially in a relationship. I know a lot of guys grew up being told that showing emotion was ‘girly’ but honestly when a guy is open about how he is feeling and doesn’t suppress it, it makes everyone feel more secure. When the girl feels like she’s the only one who has real feelings in the relationship then it’s hard to trust the guy, and the guy often feels misunderstood as he isn’t conveying what he wants to. Guys, please know it’s okay to be emotional, you deserve to be honest with the people around you and it makes relationships so much better for everyone involved
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#15
Living with your parents/being close to your parents. As long as they don’t have to do your thinking for you, it’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of!
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#16
Apologizing. It builds bridges, it’s not destruction to your ego unless you interpret it that way (so don’t interpret it that way).
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#17
About wanting to be the little spoon
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#18
Starbucks barista. Don’t be ashamed of your drink! Pink drink, Frappuccino, chai tea, they’re delicious! And we want you to have a tasty drink!
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#19
Don’t be embarrassed to get a Mani/Pedi!
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