Some things are difficult to hear or admit even if they’re true. That you’re not meant for some people like some people aren’t meant for you, for instance, or that sometimes love just isn’t enough. These are just a couple examples of pills that are hard to swallow, but people on Reddit showed that there can be plenty more, covering nearly every aspect of life.
The online community discussed the topic in a thread started on the ‘Ask Reddit’ subreddit. They opened up about what they consider the hardest metaphorical pill they’ve ever had to swallow and provided heart-wrenching and thought-provoking answers. Scroll down to find them on the list below.
Bored Panda has reached out to the redditor who started the thread, u/Liteboyy, and they were kind enough to answer a few of our questions. Scroll down to find their thoughts below.
#1
Sometimes I’M the problem. I’M the one who needs to chill out and back away from the situation.
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#2
Sometimes your friends don’t consider themselves as close to you as you do to them. The hard pill: This doesn’t make them a bad friend, it just means that everyone has their own social network and you can’t always be at the center of everyone’s.
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#3
No matter how wrong someone is or how painfully obvious a solution to one of their problems is to you, sometimes they have to figure it out on their own and there’s nothing you can do to change that.
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#4
Sometimes trying my best is not enough.
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#5
Don’t throw good money after bad. Don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy. Just because you’ve invested a lot of time, money, effort, emotion into something or someone, doesn’t mean that you should continue investing in them hoping that things will change. Sometimes its better to cut your losses and accept that while you may have wasted time and energy on something, that it’s better to stop hemmoraging resources when it’s clear that you aren’t getting the outcome you want. It’s still better to have wasted two years on something that didn’t work out than wasting ten years on it because you figure you’ve invested too much to quit.
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#6
You’re not meant for some people like some people aren’t meant for you.
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#7
“It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life.” – Captain Jean-Luc Picard
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#8
You do nothing on your own, everything you achieve is a result of other peoples actions helping you be able to be in the position you are today. You stand on the shoulders or giants in every way, this is your inheritance as a human, in the form of infrastructure, society, security, healthcare, technology, vaccination, peace, everything that allows you to have a choice in the course of your life is the result of someone in the past constructing a better world. Take this hard to swallow pill and consider it when you decide what actions to take in your daily life.
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#9
That it costs money to stay alive.
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#10
You’re not responsible for anyone’s happiness
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#11
Wanting to help does not mean you aren’t making the situation worse.
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#12
you can never escape yourself
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#13
Just because I would never do something to or hurt someone intentionally doesn’t mean they wouldn’t do it back to me.
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#14
Sometimes the reason you aren’t a doctor or lawyer or a well paying profession is simply because you were too lazy rather than not having the ability.
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#15
That sometimes you have to forgive people for being selfish. And that sometimes you yourself have to be selfish.
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#16
I’m not a millionaire who is down on his luck. I was born poor. I am poor. I will die poor. I will never be very wealthy.
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#17
Sometimes love just ain’t enough.
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#18
The only constant in my life is me. I can do all I want to keep another person in my life, but we ultimately do not decide whether they stick around or not.
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#19
You can’t help anyone that isn’t helping themselves. There’s nothing you can do for them unless they help themselves too. *Nothing.*
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#20
That all good things come to an end at some point. Just got out of a rough spot because of that. Things are really starting to go good, and I really don’t want it to end, but one day it will. Hopefully that day is a long ways away.
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#21
It’s much easier to give advice than make change in ones own life.
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#22
Some people like being unhappy
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